A RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND: IT IS POSSIBLE! – ROMAN KUSHNIR

Roman Kushnir, the Director of the SPE Development School  and the Editor-in-chief of the psychological journal Experiment, has recently shared on his Facebook page, that women often asked him how to restore responsibility in their husbands.

Читай українською: Відповідальний чоловік: це можливо! – Роман Кушнір

Here is his reply:

1. Take less upon yourself – the weaker and more helpless you are in his presence, the stronger he becomes next to you.
2. Do not reproach – your aggressive attitude towards your husband will demotivate him from any kind of activity.
3. Look after your body and figure – an attractive woman turns a man on.
4. Be feminine – hard physical work as well as rude manners are not for you.
5. Encourage his initiative of any kind: let his minimal assistance to you be recompensed greatly.
6. Be patient – changes require time but create deadlines for yourself while you keep patient.
7. Do not recollect the past too much, especially if it had many problems, but emphasize the future possibilities.
8. Develop your skills and abilities – be resourceful, develop your old talents and find new ones.
9. Keep up your spirits – try to be cheerful and contented for no special reason. Next to the woman capable of enjoying life, any husband will flourish.

Based on: RomanKushnirSPE

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